When it comes to
guys getting the first kiss right, some factors have to be taken into
consideration. In most cases, a lady will not ask you for a kiss and you have
to take the initiative yourself. However, care must be taken not to ruin a date
with an ill-timed kiss as you can never give a first impression twice. Below
are some useful tips for guys to know when a lady is ready to be kissed. Hope
you find it useful!
1. Hug response
One way to
learn about how a woman feels about you is to assess the hug response. When
saying hello or goodbye, keep the embrace short and look for non-verbal
feedback. Does she linger a bit and press into you? If so, you might even be
able to get the first kiss there and then but if she gives you a "partial
contact" hug, you might have to put that kiss on hold.
2. The flow of conversation turns romantic
When you're talking
to her and the conversation between both of you moves from general to more
intimate topics, it's because she has romance on her mind and it's a sure sign
that she is just waiting to be kissed.
3. She
looks at you directly in the eyes and doesn't look away
Another good sign
that she's ready to be kissed is when you're talking to her and she stares into
your eyes for longer than normal duration and she scans you up and down,
keeping her eyes locked on you and your lips while she talks or drinks. At this
point, she’s comfortable being with you and has already made up her mind that
she likes what she sees.
4.
She’s very flirty and physical with you
When a woman enters
your personal space and begins twirling her hair in her fingers and touching
you more often in different places, she’s inviting a response and trying to
become more intimate with you. If she wants you to kiss her, she'll also do
things like coyly smiling at you more often and discreetly exposing more skin
to you.
5.
She's comfortable with you touching her
If you reach up and
brush her hair with your hand (especially the hair by the face) and she doesn't
pull away or give you an awkward look, then chances are she's open to being
kissed!
6. She
draws attention to her mouth and lips
A woman's lips can
be extremely seductive and there is a tremendous amount of flirtatious energy
tied up in them. If she is talking to you and she starts running her
finger across her lips or leans her head toward you with her lips pouting
and subtly puckered up, she's ready to be kissed. The more aroused she is, the
more aware of her lips she becomes and that's when your kiss will be most
welcome.
7. She
has an increased "heart beat rate"
When she has an increased breathing
especially when you touch her, it's a "ready to be kissed" indicator!
This is as a result of the built-up emotions inside her that she wants to let
out and this can be observed better when you are sitting close to her. This
particular sign is my personal secret which has been working for me for years
but it takes time to master and you must also have a high level of intuition to
successfully identify this.
From experience and
research, when a lady shows three or more of the above signs, it's a green
light for a kiss. Don't dull! Get that kiss today!
PS: Appreciating
all the ladies who contributed to this post viz. Chizoba, Imaobong and Uzoma.
Also acknowledging other sources. Thank you all!
Thanks
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